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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Connie K on September 23, 2013 at 11:46am

Wanted to share this American Indian poem with all of my friends here75009_555231174542276_1581423940_n.jpg. Sorry For some reason I am not getting the poem just the link. . I will copy and paste a little later. Gotta go to work. :(

Comment by Connie K on September 23, 2013 at 11:40am

Thinking of you Jane. prayers and hugs to everyone. Thank you Ann for your share. It  is a struggle I am going through quite fervently  and am just so confused sometimes. I know Daniel is still alive  in spirit and God is there but I still struggle with so many questions and  have not found the peace, the bliss, he joy. Not yet. It is so hard because I miss him so so so so much everyday, every second. But I just hope and pray that he has.

Comment by Jane P on September 22, 2013 at 8:06pm

I live in Canada, the "frozen north". We cannot bury our dead in the winter months. My daughter, Danielle died Dec. 2, 2012. Her interment is this coming Tuesday. We will bury her. I am struggling to maintain strength for the ceremony. I feel like I am on a downward slide. It will be so hard. And so final.

My heart is broken.

Comment by Jane P on September 22, 2013 at 8:00pm

Thank you Anne

You give me hope.

You opened up your heart.

To let the love in again.

What a beautiful, meaningful share.

Comment by anne on September 22, 2013 at 5:01pm

You'll know when you get to the point of no more questions. It takes a while, but you'll know. It comes with acceptance. At first the acceptance part comes, and goes. Then one day you realize that no matter how many questions go unanswered, you just stop wondering. At least that's how it worked for me. I began to realize that no matter how many questions or would've, should've, could've things I felt I either had to believe or not. I have pushed the faith thing back and forth for a long time. Even in my deepest anger, and pain I have come to realize that for me God is here. I hear, and see him in many different ways. I feel his presences in good times. and in bad. At first I thought I believed because I had nothing else. I needed to believe to survive. Now after everything I know in my heart that he cries with me. God smiles when I smile. He hears my prayers. I believe this because I am still here. I can still love, and be loved. Best of all I have found the laughter once again. Things don't happen because I want them, or I think I need them. They happen when God knows it's the right time, and the right place for things to happen to me. I never trusted this in my whole life until now. When I am quiet not only in voice, but in my heart I feel God. I feel my sweet boys laughter, and I see their smiles. It's not always like this. I know I will always have days of sadness, anger, and questions, but the days when my heart are at peace all of the bad stuff goes away. I finally understand the words, To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven. Many of you are so new to this journey, but your time will also come. I wish for all of you Peace in your heart.

Comment by Jane P on September 22, 2013 at 3:28pm

Beautiful poems, thank you.

Comment by Grace on September 22, 2013 at 9:38am

Good Morning everyone.... it is Morning and the sun is shining.... even if the cold fall weather is upon us.... The day is here and we will get though it no matter what.... and we will find something to smile about... or even reflect on our kids and the smiles they gave us.... LOVE and PEACE to you all...

Comment by Bern on September 21, 2013 at 11:35pm

Thank you so much Vasanthi S.

I needed you today.

Berna

Comment by Vasanthi S on September 21, 2013 at 10:46pm

Marilyn, don't ever tell yourself that you wont see ur darling son-- u will.. thats what keeps us going so do not despair-- i always have this feeling that it is we who are here who need prayers and those with the Lord are fine.. sending love and hugsss to all here...Teresa, Berna I hope the day was somehow bearable...Marilyn what lovely bday cards-- lifts the spirits to see it..

Comment by Connie K on September 21, 2013 at 1:40pm

Teresa and Berna I am sending happy birthday thoughts to you both and your beautiful children. They are dancing in the sky and singing with the angel's choir...

 

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