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Comment by Bern on October 27, 2013 at 10:20pm

My only son (left-handed) was shot in the head above his left eyebrow 9/30/2012. My son went to a girl house he knew to get his clothes. The girl (Charly) told police that they were playing with gun and my son shot himself. The oldest lie in history, to but the murder on the victim. What left handed person plays with a gun and shots themselves above his left eyebrow, impossible.
My son Timothy Jr. Birthday is September 21. He is 21 years old.

Comment by Karen R. on October 27, 2013 at 8:13pm

Once again, thanks to all. Dolly I hope that you will be able to find something that works for you.

I know that many people celebrate and enjoy Halloween, as for me, I've never been a big fan and don't participate.....I don't knock anyone that does but since my son passed away, I actually dread this "holiday". My heart sinks when I go in the stores and I see the goriness with blood and guts, skeletons, coffins and tombstones, especially the ones that read 'RIP' and replicas of cemeteries. I can't look at any of it, I try to avoid isles that contain these items. I was just curious if anyone else feels like this, I feel like I may be alone with this this one. I just can't wait for Halloween to pass.

Comment by anne on October 27, 2013 at 6:33pm

My thoughts are with you Dick. I was just wondering how you are doing. Those days are never easier. (((hugs to you))). We are here if you need to let it out. 

Comment by Dick on October 27, 2013 at 6:18pm

Feeling horrible today. My son's birthday is coming & the holidays. It does not get easier.

Comment by anne on October 27, 2013 at 2:17pm

Dear Strong Karen, Wow, wow, wow! Thank you so much for sharing. That is certainly a hard one. We are here.

Comment by Teresa D. on October 27, 2013 at 12:31pm

Karen & Anne my heart goes out to you.

Comment by Karen R. on October 26, 2013 at 10:52pm

Thanks for the hugs Dawn

Comment by Karen R. on October 26, 2013 at 8:41pm

I think my anger will ease once this person is held accountable, My son's voice was silenced but mine's was not, I have to be his voice. If they had a legitimate reason then they would have that documented for proof but they don't. I truly believe that because he had been critically injured, they figured if he died before I learned where he was, then I would just think he was in  a "ACCIDENT" and I wouldn't be the wiser.  Thanks for letting me share.

Comment by Karen R. on October 26, 2013 at 8:31pm

Wow, thanks so much Anne.  My hearts hurts with yours and I can totally appreciate what you shared. In my son's case, he was deliberately chased into oncoming traffic in a residential area by a police officer driving a UNMARKED SUV that had no lights or sirens activated while my son was riding his friend's motorcycle. Since my son's case investigation, that involves a key witness and expert witness engineers, this all occurred because this officer of the "law" just decided to be a jerk and harass my son and chase him down, my son would've had no idea who was behind the wheel of this vehicle, hence it has been discovered that he was not witnessed committing a felonious act, not even a mere traffic violation. My son was taken to the hospital listed as a "John Doe" because they said he had no form of ID on him. My son was in ICU for over 30 hrs before I learned where he was. They never contacted me, when I went to the hospital a nurse pulled me aside and told me off the record, that the police new who my son was. The police told me that he was involved in a motor vehicle "ACCIDENT" only but a patient advocate said to me one day my son's bedside that it was terrible that the police had chased him. When she saw the shocked looked on my face, she assumed I knew already, that's when my suspicions were alerted. The police totally denied that he was ever being pursued. I did my own detective work and found a key witness that was directly involved and she reassured me that there absolutely was a chase, and that there was nothing to identify this vehicle as a police vehicle, I was able to obtain 3 different accident reports with all different information. The police dept has even tried to get this key witness to change her testimony. During this investigation we have learned of a cover up by this police department but their story has crumbled. I filed a claim and a judge agreed that my son's case had to move forward, despite the police officer's attempt to have the case thrown out. So now we are preparing for trial.

Comment by anne on October 26, 2013 at 1:06pm

Teresa you make my heart sing!

Karen I know exactly how you feel. When my Ben was killed the man that ran the stop sign, and hit my daughter, and killed my son had 2 of his own children in his truck. I was livid! I wanted him in my presence so I could choke the life right out of him as he did my son with his recklessness. The day came when we went to court, as the man was driving a company truck with a machine trailer hitched to it. I came out of the arbitrary room and there he was. There were several lawyers standing their, and were looking quite shocked because I wasn't supposed to meet the man that killed my son. Also that day the pictures of the accident were sent around the table to the different lawyers, and one of them accidently handed them to me. I saw my son dead in that car. I almost puked right there. Then when I walked out of that room there he was, the man that killed my son, and crippled my daughter. I don't know how it happened. I was quite shocked at my own behavior, but I walked up to him, hugged him, and said I forgive you. It was like something out of a crazy movie. I looked around, and all of those top notch lawyers had tears in their eyes. The man was punished for what he did, but I believe his knowing that he took another wonderful human life was a punishment he will carry for the rest of his life. I forgave him for me. I forgave him because I was not willing to carry that burden and that anger for the rest of my life. I had enough to deal with. I hope The man that should've helped your son gets his punishment, but I also hope you wont have to carry the burden of anger towards him. I believe that people who do things like this will have to atone for their actions in one way or another. You beautiful son was robbed of his life, and you were robbed of your son, so was I, and many others. That's why I wont let the man that killed my  son rob me of anything else. Peace to you all!

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