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Comment by Vasanthi S on October 28, 2013 at 5:59am

Bern. How agonising, ittakes a while to stop reliving how it al happened and the injustice that is felt adds on  and makes it very difficult to overcome.My heart is with you all here. I call us the army of the extremely brave and try not to dwell on the implications of holidays and festivals... try to just go with the flow and just be.

Am now with Craig in Groton . it is soothing to be with one whom one loves and adores and its also medicine.. we made a corner in our home and put up Pics of all our loved ones who are with us in love that is shared.. We have 2 gorgeous lovely ladies.. Craig's Mom and Jan, my amazing  wonderful son,Shreyas and a few figurines and pics of God in his many varied roles.. Every morning I light a lamp and mild incense there and it is peaceful to know that we are being loved and guided...when i dig deep in the pain . all I find is love...I wish desperately that we all get to a place where the pain evaporates.. that we walk this road and hold God's hand while doing so, cos I have the firm belief that the creator will take the best care of his 'creation' of which we all are an irreplaceable part of...Anyone wishing to meet up in say January around the 13th, 14th, please email me at vasanti.s@gmail.com.. ansd I will co-ordinate with you all on telephone so we can decide on what suits most of us the best.. waiting to just spend a quiet day with you all.xoxoxoxox

Comment by Teresa D. on October 28, 2013 at 5:38am

Karen, Bern, Anne, what a difficult road to be on.

Comment by Bern on October 27, 2013 at 10:20pm

My only son (left-handed) was shot in the head above his left eyebrow 9/30/2012. My son went to a girl house he knew to get his clothes. The girl (Charly) told police that they were playing with gun and my son shot himself. The oldest lie in history, to but the murder on the victim. What left handed person plays with a gun and shots themselves above his left eyebrow, impossible.
My son Timothy Jr. Birthday is September 21. He is 21 years old.

Comment by Karen R. on October 27, 2013 at 8:13pm

Once again, thanks to all. Dolly I hope that you will be able to find something that works for you.

I know that many people celebrate and enjoy Halloween, as for me, I've never been a big fan and don't participate.....I don't knock anyone that does but since my son passed away, I actually dread this "holiday". My heart sinks when I go in the stores and I see the goriness with blood and guts, skeletons, coffins and tombstones, especially the ones that read 'RIP' and replicas of cemeteries. I can't look at any of it, I try to avoid isles that contain these items. I was just curious if anyone else feels like this, I feel like I may be alone with this this one. I just can't wait for Halloween to pass.

Comment by anne on October 27, 2013 at 6:33pm

My thoughts are with you Dick. I was just wondering how you are doing. Those days are never easier. (((hugs to you))). We are here if you need to let it out. 

Comment by Dick on October 27, 2013 at 6:18pm

Feeling horrible today. My son's birthday is coming & the holidays. It does not get easier.

Comment by anne on October 27, 2013 at 2:17pm

Dear Strong Karen, Wow, wow, wow! Thank you so much for sharing. That is certainly a hard one. We are here.

Comment by Teresa D. on October 27, 2013 at 12:31pm

Karen & Anne my heart goes out to you.

Comment by Karen R. on October 26, 2013 at 10:52pm

Thanks for the hugs Dawn

Comment by Karen R. on October 26, 2013 at 8:41pm

I think my anger will ease once this person is held accountable, My son's voice was silenced but mine's was not, I have to be his voice. If they had a legitimate reason then they would have that documented for proof but they don't. I truly believe that because he had been critically injured, they figured if he died before I learned where he was, then I would just think he was in  a "ACCIDENT" and I wouldn't be the wiser.  Thanks for letting me share.

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