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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter 467 Replies

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Comment by Lynn Williams on February 3, 2014 at 10:52am

Kyra's accident was caused by someone driving over a tire shred in front of her and it bounced up and smashed her windshield causing the crash. Two days before her Dad and I were driving on the highway and a few large rocks fell out of a gravel truck next to us and cracked the windshield. A preview of what was to come for my daughter.   

Comment by Michelle H on February 3, 2014 at 10:27am
On March 2 of 2013, I woke up at 4:00 a.m. feeling very unsettled, with the feeling that Chris was slipping away from me. The feeling bothered me all day, so later that afternoon, I tested him to say that I was feeling a little concerned (not mentioning the slipping away part). He texted back that he was fine. Twenty-one days later, he passed away suddenly and unexpectedly while on a cruise with his wife. Was I being prepared somehow for the unthinkable???
Comment by Ammy on February 3, 2014 at 10:16am

Adrianne, I wouldn't say it was a feeling of something wrong but the last morning as he was getting ready to go to the doctor we were talking and when I looked at him there was what I call a glow about his face.  I kept telling him how good he looked.  I must have said it a half dozen times or more.  He finally got embarrassed and said something about how it was probably because he got a good night's sleep.  I have often thought about that.  It had never happened before and as I look back now I take it as a blessing that God gave me to remember how I felt looking at him that morning and how good he looked.

We're being hammered with another snowstorm today.  I am so ready for a change in seasons even though I know that every new season brings more pain again for awhile.

Blessings to all.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Comment by anna l. on February 3, 2014 at 4:53am

Adrianne, a resounding Yes!  In 2010 my sibling group decided to have a sibling reunion in California at a spa some of the older ones would go to for winters.  I was so excited since I had never been there and one of my sisters I had only seen a handful of times in 30 years.  A few weeks before I was to leave I started to feel really weird.  I could not put my finger on what it was.  On my last day of work I broke down crying with a friend telling her I felt like the world was going to end, not like a wonderful reunion was about to happen.  I did go on the trip.  It took the whole day to get to our destination and we stayed up late visiting and I didn't turn my cell phone on.  The next morning the phone call finally got through to me that my son Karl had died through the night and his wife found him still sitting in his chair the next morning.  The morning I was flying away on my big deal reunion.  One of the first people on scene to help my daughter in law was a victim service councillor, who happened to be the friend I broke down with a week before.  We never really talked about that whole thing other than one time after I had flown home she hugged me and whispered in my ear we should have listened to my intuition.  I know we cant live in constant fear that something bad is going to happen, but I sure wish I could go back and listen to my little voice.   

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on February 2, 2014 at 11:29pm
Does anyone, looking back, remember some kind of feeling that something was wrong or about to happen? Or hear anything in their mind as a warning?
Comment by Michelle H on February 2, 2014 at 7:38pm
Happy Birthday to BEN and CONNIE!!!
Comment by Connie K on February 2, 2014 at 6:04pm

I had an Uncle Curtis too...

Comment by Connie K on February 2, 2014 at 6:04pm

Dolly _ I am so sorry for your loss of Uncle Curtis. I will be sending you  and your family love and prayers. Dolly have they given you Diflucan fo an extended time? Fungal infections can be hard to deal with and That usually works. Also you could be having some reaction to or drug interaction to an ingredient in something you are taking.  And if you don't have one, I would highly recommend a whole house water filter so you control whatever is being absorbed through your skin. Sorry you are suffering so much.

Hugs to everyone here today

Comment by anne on February 2, 2014 at 3:57pm

Dolly, take a deep breath my friend. You need to find a way to calm yourself. Illness is part of grief I'm sad to say. Sounds like your very frustrated in which you have every right to be, but maybe you just need some peace, and quiet. As for Brandon, of course he needs you. A child needs their mother here on earth, and in the heavens. God needs you even more. God needs you to spread all of that love that you have inside you. He needs you to comfort others who also have no choice in this matter. Dolly you are loved and needed more than you'll ever know. I'm glad your getting things off your chest.

Comment by anne on February 2, 2014 at 3:48pm

I decided to do my best to deal with it.

Prayers for Uncle Curtis.

I hope you are all having a peaceful weekend. I am sitting here with my dogs just hanging out thinkin about all of you. I wish I had a magic wand so I could give all of you a day off from grief. Peace and Love

 

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