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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Jane P on March 14, 2014 at 6:37pm

Beautiful poem.

Thank you.

We needed that.

Comment by Connie K on March 14, 2014 at 3:49pm

Grace - I have had a few dreams like that, where you know somehow in the dream that you have hug as tight as you can. I don't think they are dreams, but visits. A gift from the other side really. It's your Niles way of giving you the physical love we all miss so much. And yes, it is heartbreaking to wake up from but also amazing to have the opportunity to feel that again. Awe and sorrow, it is the way of life I guess. It is so so sad to think of never being able to see of talk or hug them in the same way. But his spirit is there with you and will always be. But I am sorry you feel the pain so fresh again. Ever since my last "dream" which was 3 weeks ago, I just want him back every second of every day. Hugs to you

Comment by Grace on March 14, 2014 at 2:50pm

dreamed about Niles and he was a little boy and I dreamed someone had taken him from me and insisted that he was better off living with them.... so then I visited him and he smiled and hugged me with his legs around my waist and his arms around his neck... I really hugged and we loved on each other.... and then in my dream I went to talk to Glenis... a Psycholgist friend of ours and said... "I really think Niles needs to come home with his Mom........ Then I woke up and cried because it was like it just happened and I will never be able to hug him ever again.... so I started crying and woke up Dave... so having a PITY Day....

Nothing anyone can do.....
Comment by Lynn Williams on March 14, 2014 at 2:48pm

Thank you Connie the poem is beautiful. I hope you are feeling better soon hugs

Comment by Michelle H on March 14, 2014 at 2:02pm
Connie, that is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing! It's very comforting.
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Comment by Connie K on March 14, 2014 at 12:26pm

Michele sorry I missed your birthday - I hope you had peaceful day with those who love you. I know how hard this time is for you with the anniversary of his passing next week. And I know it must be so hard for his wife and family. I am sending live to you all.

All of these special days take on such a different meaning, I know it's hard to feel good about your own birthday. Daniel's birthday is March 31st and  I feel I need to celebrate his life with his family and friends. As hard as it is to try to plan something, I just keep thinking that  I will never stop celebrating him in my life and that awesome day he was born.

I have been very sick with the flu for a week coupled with the weird carbon monoxide exposure and am feeling so weak on every level. I just can't believe it's been15 months since he's gone and the 2nd of his birthdays to get through without him here. How is this possible? Last year was so difficult to get through and this year doesn't seem any easier but I decided to try to do a drum circle (never done that before) with his closest friends and family because he was a drummer and I feel he will feel the love and vibrations being sent out just for him. His own words were "those who have passed, do not wish to be mourned, they wish to be celebrated." So that is what I will try to do.

Anne - so glad you are better and feel okay about your illness. Will you have to have surgery?

Yes, we are all different people than we used to be. And hopefully, like you said Anne, we have learned some important lessons and become better, not bitter. Thinking of you all and sending you prayers to find the strength to deal with it all.

Comment by Vasanthi S on March 14, 2014 at 11:21am

Michelle.... Happy birthday and may you always feel the love and presence in your life. You will find the necklace.. I have no doubt..xoxoxox

Comment by Ammy on March 14, 2014 at 11:04am

Michelle, I'm sorry I missed your birthday.  I thought it was today, but I hope you had a kinder day and that you find your necklace.  Hugs.

Comment by Michelle H on March 14, 2014 at 9:55am
You are all so dear, kind, and compassionate. I thank God that we have one another to walk this lonely path together. Thanks to each of you for the birthday wishes. It was a good one. BUT I woke up this morning only to realize that the beautiful emerald necklace my husband gave me yesterday for my birthday is missing. I know it's only an object, but it was very special and beautiful. I have to pray that we find it.
 

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