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Comment by Lynn Williams on September 3, 2016 at 9:45am

I am so sorry Bruce and Rita on the loss of your children. We are all here trying to cope with our devastating loss of a child.  Three years ago today, we had a memorial service for our daughter Kyra who died in a car accident in Montana. I still cry a little most days but the unrelenting pain does ease so we can go on living. In the beginning the shock and grief are 24/7 and its so hard to imagine you will still be alive in a year. Just be kind to yourselves and get through minute by minute. Love and hugs to all here 

Comment by Dolly on August 31, 2016 at 9:21pm

it is hard to believe when your heart is ripped out.... but its the only hope there is... so I have decided I'd rather take the chance that God IS who He says He is and that His promises that we will be together again are TRUE... because the alternative is NO hope and i just can't bear that... but I have my moments and my days ... when I tell God how I don't get it and it hurts so much and how can this be His will for me and my loved ones... but then I realize I just have to trust.. because its my ONLY option that gives me any hope at all... that's how I see it at the moment anyway... who knows what I'll be thinking next week or next year... or tomorrow??

Comment by Jill E on August 31, 2016 at 9:15pm

Thank you! Back at ya sweetheart... All my love always.

Comment by Connie K on August 31, 2016 at 6:26pm

Hugs Jill

Comment by Jill E on August 31, 2016 at 4:58pm

Connie-I want so much to believe in everything... That I will see my Josh again, that Josh knows how much I love and miss him and that Josh is watching over his little brother because Derek needs him so much. I want to believe in God. It is so hard. I am so tired. I try so hard to believe because it is all I have also. Hope

Comment by Connie K on August 31, 2016 at 3:18pm

Jill - I don't know - it's all I have at this point. I have lost my drive, motivation and almost my sanity! I'm gonna pray that I get through the day

Comment by Jill E on August 31, 2016 at 3:03pm

Is it worth praying when my prayers weren't answered when I asked for my son to be saved?

Comment by Connie K on August 31, 2016 at 11:48am

Hugs to everyone (((  )))

Comment by Connie K on August 31, 2016 at 11:47am

Dear Rita and Bruce

 I am so so very sorry for your losses. There are no words to express how devastated we are when we lose a child. I lost my only child in a sudden tragic car accident at age 17, 3 and a half years ago. The sudden loss sends you right into shock. I still also think about that night when the cops and coroner drove up to our house at 12:30pm. Daniel was supposed to be home long before and I couldn't find him anywhere. How I prayed he was in trouble and in that squad car. The horror of that night never leaves me. My faith that we will see each other again is what gets me through. I truly believe that spirit lives on and like to think he is doing amazing things w e cannot even imagine. Keep your heart open and look for signs that they are still with you. My heart goes out to you and I hope you can find some support and comfort here. We all understand and are here for you. Sending love and prayers.

Comment by Jill E on August 30, 2016 at 2:00pm

Rita-I totally understand... I cry when I see Josh's photos. His birthday was the 5th- he would have been 35. I would do anything and I mean anything to bring him back. My younger son misses him so much but we don't talk about Josh much as I think he doesn't want to make me sad. Poor kid I am so over protective of him. He lives in Texas now while I am in Arizona-so far from me. Hugs to all. I wish I had never met you, in this place, with so much in common, in so much pain. We are all here and I thank God I did meet you because here I can talk without the "happy" mask. Because we understand each other. I love you my Joshie. I miss you everyday.

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