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Comment by Teresa D. on January 26, 2015 at 6:35pm

Connie I can only offer emotional support in your battle.  I am thinking of you and hope the process ends quickly so you can find some peace. 

Linda, nothing is wrong with you.  We all have to do what we can to keep going.  I know I'm not who I was and I have come to realize just like my Michael was a part of me his leaving is now a part of me.  I will carry this forever.  I'm also going through many changes.  They way I see things is changing.  What's important to me is changing.  How I celebrate things is changing.  I don't know where it is all going and what it will look like but I also know things will never be the way they were.  Your okay Linda....your not the only one feeling so lost and isolated.  Your okay and we're always with you.

Comment by Marie on January 26, 2015 at 3:39pm

I meant to say joining a support group.

Comment by Marie on January 26, 2015 at 3:37pm

Linda, I am so sorry. Have you thought about joking a support group? I have just been forcing myself to go out with my friends. I figure I am so sad all the time if I don't my brain will never have a break. Connie, sorry you're having such a hard time. It must be awful!!! Hugs to you both!

Comment by Linda on January 22, 2015 at 8:17pm

I've lost my luster for life. My husband has gone to D.R for the week and left me alone. Alone. This is all I feel anymore. Isolated. I realize it begins with me. I just can't find it in myself to be apart of "the living" anymore. What's happening to me???!!!!

Comment by Connie K on January 22, 2015 at 3:43pm

Thanks for sharing Laurie. Having an extremely difficult month. Deposition is Monday. Reliving every excruciating detail and feeling very alone  in this fight. Thanks to all here! hugs

Comment by Lynn Williams on January 22, 2015 at 1:53pm

Thank you Laurie, I also just watched a TED talk she did on resilience which is on utube.

Comment by Jesse's Mom on January 21, 2015 at 4:58pm

My sister mentioned this program on Grief from Dr. Oz to me the other day. Thought I would post it.

http://www.doctoroz....heal-grief-cure

How Madonna Badger Copes With Grief 3 Years After Losing Her Family

Originally aired on 1/20/2015

Madonna Badger shares her experience of entering an acute care unit to help battle the grief of losing her family during a Christmas fire.

Guests: Madonna Badger

Comment by Lynn Williams on January 21, 2015 at 1:37pm

Dolly the death of our child does bring so much loneliness along with the crushing sadness. When our other living family act remote or distant it makes us feel so abandoned and alone. It also brings back the intense feelings of loss. I can understand what you are going through. My 24 year old daughter moved back to Vermont this past October. My husband spent a few months turning a one room cabin on our property into a home for her. We had water brought in and had gas and electric connected. She started being very uncommunicative and acted like she didn't want us around. She told us two weeks ago she was moving back to Montana in April. I was crushed and the intense feelings of grief came flooding back from when Kyra died. I so wanted Genna to be back here with us and farm the land. Linda I have always felt spiritual in my life and always believed there was a god. After Kyra died I knew I needed to go back to church again because I needed something more. Instead of returning to a Catholic Church I joined a Congregational church and feel so welcome there. When loved ones die most people need assurances that life continues on. I know I do. Much love to everyone here.

Comment by Marie on January 21, 2015 at 11:15am

Linda, I feel like I pray differently now. I used to pray for everything, like Dear God, Please help me find a job, or please help Taylor, etc. Now I just pray for strength. I don't believe God takes, I believe bad things just happen, and God gives us people in our lives to help us make it through....

Comment by Teresa D. on January 21, 2015 at 5:54am

Linda I always felt like I had a relationship with God and I always felt it was strong.  But your right, the power of God for me has grown even stronger. I know for some they lose their faith. 

For me to give up God is like saying Michael is not in heaven and I can't do that.  Michael is in heaven!!!!  

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