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Comment by Sharon on April 9, 2015 at 5:59pm

Rj - Im so glad that work went well today. I think that I actually do better on the days that I work too.  Meltdowns will be normal, I have them too. I just go run into the bathroom. I have learned to always have Kleenex with me because I never know when they will hit. I'm just so tired of being sad and crying. My eyes are tired, my whole body is tired...

Connie, thank you for your love and prayers. You are right, it is not normal to bury your child. The heartache just never leaves us...

Comment by Rj on April 9, 2015 at 5:45pm

May we all find some way to cope...well work whooped my butt today, tired, first day back since losing larry 2/1. I was met with such genuine and gentle kindness. Has a few small meltdowns. I did better than what i thought i would.

Comment by Connie K on April 9, 2015 at 11:22am

Sharon - i am so sorry that your dad passed away. That is a lot to deal with. Don't feel guilty - your dad knows that it's different with a parent. As horrible as it is to lose your parent ( I have lost my dad and both in-laws who I was very close to), it is a natural progression of time. It is something we are prepared for at some point - that they will go first. To lose a child is not natural. It is literally a part of you and a soul connection that is the greatest. Your psyche is protecting you from too much pain. You will process it and grieve just the way you need to, Sending you lots of love and prayers. Connie

Comment by Connie K on April 9, 2015 at 10:51am

Monique -  that pain is so horrible. I still sometimes feel like I cannot breath. It is unbelievable - the whole thing. Life is a new and unchartered ocean. I hate cruises. I don't want to go. I think we all feel the same . We just want them back....

Comment by Sharon on April 9, 2015 at 9:39am

Only been two months since my son died. Thursday before Easter my father died. So much sadness at my house. I feel guilty because I feel like I'm still grieving so much for my son, that I have nothing left for dad. I can only take so much at one time?

Comment by Connie K on April 6, 2015 at 11:00am

Sharon, that comment. grrrr If only it were true....time has nothing to do with it but that's what everyone wants to believe....time helps to figure out how to manage the pain, that is all.

Comment by Vasanthi S on April 6, 2015 at 6:51am

Sharon, it must be so hard for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Connie am glad you could share Daniel's birthday with his friends. 

Prayers to all of us here .

Comment by Teresa D. on April 5, 2015 at 7:31am

HAPPY EASTER! 

I hope everyone finds some sense of peace today.

Comment by Rj on April 4, 2015 at 6:19pm

So very true connie.

Comment by Sharon on April 4, 2015 at 5:33pm

Connie I've only had two dreams about Troy. Once he was a small boy around 5, and once he was grown but didn't speak... I wish I could dream more.

Rj, people that haven't been this don't get it. My neighbor asked me how I was, and I said not good. She answered happily, "oh well, time heals all". My broken heart will never heal. It may scab a little, but it will never heal.

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