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Comment by Connie K on April 9, 2015 at 11:22am

Sharon - i am so sorry that your dad passed away. That is a lot to deal with. Don't feel guilty - your dad knows that it's different with a parent. As horrible as it is to lose your parent ( I have lost my dad and both in-laws who I was very close to), it is a natural progression of time. It is something we are prepared for at some point - that they will go first. To lose a child is not natural. It is literally a part of you and a soul connection that is the greatest. Your psyche is protecting you from too much pain. You will process it and grieve just the way you need to, Sending you lots of love and prayers. Connie

Comment by Connie K on April 9, 2015 at 10:51am

Monique -  that pain is so horrible. I still sometimes feel like I cannot breath. It is unbelievable - the whole thing. Life is a new and unchartered ocean. I hate cruises. I don't want to go. I think we all feel the same . We just want them back....

Comment by Sharon on April 9, 2015 at 9:39am

Only been two months since my son died. Thursday before Easter my father died. So much sadness at my house. I feel guilty because I feel like I'm still grieving so much for my son, that I have nothing left for dad. I can only take so much at one time?

Comment by Connie K on April 6, 2015 at 11:00am

Sharon, that comment. grrrr If only it were true....time has nothing to do with it but that's what everyone wants to believe....time helps to figure out how to manage the pain, that is all.

Comment by Vasanthi S on April 6, 2015 at 6:51am

Sharon, it must be so hard for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Connie am glad you could share Daniel's birthday with his friends. 

Prayers to all of us here .

Comment by Teresa D. on April 5, 2015 at 7:31am

HAPPY EASTER! 

I hope everyone finds some sense of peace today.

Comment by Rj on April 4, 2015 at 6:19pm

So very true connie.

Comment by Sharon on April 4, 2015 at 5:33pm

Connie I've only had two dreams about Troy. Once he was a small boy around 5, and once he was grown but didn't speak... I wish I could dream more.

Rj, people that haven't been this don't get it. My neighbor asked me how I was, and I said not good. She answered happily, "oh well, time heals all". My broken heart will never heal. It may scab a little, but it will never heal.

Comment by Rj on April 4, 2015 at 12:00pm

People are starting to say replace the pain with the good memories but i am just not there. My God if i could do that i would! I have so many good memories but it doesnt make me feel even the least bit better. I know a day may come when yes, I will be able to smile when i think of him but it is not now, not today!

Comment by Sharon on April 4, 2015 at 11:36am

I take Xanax at night too, or I wouldn't sleep. I'm glad the Zoloft is working for you. I'm just such an anxious person anyway, that I'm afraid to take any new medication. I take a 5HTP from Costco, which is sort of a serotonin replacement. I do feel some relief from it.  I'm just such an anxious person anyway, that I would probably worry about side effects... which would cause them to happen you know?  Yes, stay on the meds as long as you need them.  I saw my general doctor yesterday and he said that my Xanax is such a low dose that there is no risk of addiction.  We need to do what we need to do to survive these first horrid months.  I too wish we could fast forward to a day without tears...

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