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Permalink Reply by kim on December 16, 2014 at 6:42am

hi rudi, I to lost my only child my son shawn, last year,  ill never move on the pain is so unreal. I miss him so very much, shawn is the love of my life forever. each day brings me one more fay closer to him, and I cant wait to hold him again. the people in here will help you and we all understand your pain. love and hugs to you     kim

Permalink Reply by jill Gershon on December 16, 2014 at 6:57am

Hi Rudi, My son, Aaron, passed away November 22, 2013.  I function in life, but it has taken true joy out of it.  I miss him and wish to dream of him just so I can see him again.  It is all so senseless.  All I can say just a little more than a year out is that I don't cry as much.  Thank goodness I have a job because otherwise I'd lose my mind. 

Permalink Reply by jill Gershon on December 16, 2014 at 8:27am

For now, you just have to get to a point where you can do your regular stuff and then figure out what you're going to do with it -- a cause.  That's what I'm working on.  You can't avoid going through the grief process, so go with it.  At this point, I'm just happy I can get on a site like this and not break down, so it's progress.  virtual hug to you.