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Comment by Jayne on October 17, 2014 at 11:39pm

cancer is the worst my mom had pancreatic cancer,

 jayne

Comment by Stephanie on October 13, 2014 at 6:13pm

I have reading about so much heartache that the members have posted for me the days empty my husband died from lung cancer feb this year like losing my right arm

my days now consist of hate hate to get up hate to go to bed hate watching TV because something will remind me he is no longer here Once a very happy person I now find no joy in life  I do know after reading these stories that others can feel this way I also know that time is a great healer  and I do try to look at the positive side of life and some times that is very hard so I take heart in words that were once said to me "Without death how can we appreciate their life"

Comment by Mary M. on October 10, 2014 at 6:11pm

It has been a while since I have posted. First let me say how sorry I am for your losses. My heart goes out to you all. It's now been 2.5 years since I lost my husband and still I miss him. There are still days I cry for seemingly no reason that anybody with me can figure out. A song on the radio, something somebody says can have me in tears. It doesn't get easier the more time passes, I just get better at not showing how I really feel. Holding onto my faith, the love and support of family and friends has helped me keep going. I kept a journal the first year and recently read through what I had written, and yes cried my eyes out. But it made me realize how much I have changed. I will never be the person I was, but I am more able to live with the person I have become. Maybe I have finally reached the acceptance stage of grief. I don't know. I do know I have passed the anger and guilt stages.

For those of you beginning the grief journey, remember you are not alone. There are many that can identify with what you are feeling, the struggles that need to be overcome. I have come to know many on this site who helped me through my worse days just by letting me pour my heart out without judgement but supporting me with love and compassion. Blessings and prayers come out to all of you.

Comment by dream moon JO B on October 10, 2014 at 4:39pm

Comment by Lilliana on October 8, 2014 at 2:19am

Thank you Louraniah so much for your encouraging words, I will look in to his social security but I don't have a death certificate because he died in Cuba and we were not married.

Your prayers are appreciated so much and I'm so sorry for your loss :(

Thank you again, I feel like you know exactly what I feel!!! My therapist was right about me joining a support group :)

Comment by Shirley on October 8, 2014 at 12:12am

Lilliana....You should be able to get help from social security for the two year old They are supposed to send monthly checks to help you get   her raised. That will help out a lot with your finances.Try to take each day at a time and ask God to help you and be your strength as you slowly move forward with your children. My hubby passed the 29th of April and I am going through much the same thing as you are. We have to be strong for our children's sake. Will send some prayers for you and the daughter.  God Bless You...

Comment by Lilliana on October 7, 2014 at 6:30pm

I lost my boyfriend of 8 years to lung cancer May 29th of this year.  Our daughter is only 2 and everyday is a struggle, I feel weak and in so much pain still. I can't even visit his grave because he's buried in Cuba.  My life is so different since his passing, I feel numb everyday like everything around me is in slow motion!!!  All the antidepressants and sleeping pills don't take away my sorrow or make me forget about my pain!!

Yesterday October 6th he would have been 50 years old, it was an incredibly emotional day and to top it all off I was sent home yesterday on an administrative paid leave.  I don't know what I am going to do without him, without a job and two kids...I want to leave it all in Gods hands but it's hard I'm struggling so much with everything!!! :(

Comment by Lisa Lisa on September 26, 2014 at 8:08am

Why can't you live with yourself?
I am dreading the future. Everyday. Mom's birthday...Oct 19. My birthday...Nov. 21. Then the holidays.
"Orphan" is such an ugly word.

Comment by Casey on September 26, 2014 at 12:25am

Thank you, Lisa. Its just beyond heartbreaking. I don't know how I can ever live with myself.

Comment by Lisa Lisa on September 24, 2014 at 5:57pm

  I'm sorry, Casey.

  My Dad died on August 20, 2014.

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