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Comment by Katherine Ellis on October 23, 2009 at 1:52am

Welcome to everyone that is new here. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope this site helps you as much as it has me. Its the one place you can come to where people understand your grief without judging. We are great listeners as we have been where you are. Gods Blessings

Comment by Stephanie on October 4, 2009 at 8:12am

First of all I just want to thank everyone who responded eto my comment. It is really appreciated and it helps a whole lot to know that there really are people out there thaqt understand my feelings and what i'm going through. Again,thank you all cyour strenth and encouragement helps me!

Comment by Katherine Ellis on October 3, 2009 at 2:44pm

I lost my Mom over 12 years ago. I still miss her enery, love and laughter. We talked 2-3 times a day and even now I wonder when the phone rings. She too thought she could beat this horrible diese. But it took her away within weeks. They told us we had 6 months left. She fought a brave fight for over 3 years. Why do the good have to die so young? She was my strenght and best friend. No one can even come close to replacing her.

Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on October 2, 2009 at 8:59pm

Stephanie I am sorry for your loss. It has been almost five years and it almost killed me. I adored him and to watch him suffer so much. Unfortunately, anniversaries are hard. I dread my birthday, Nov 24, Thanksgiving and Christmas since my mom died on August 17, 2009.
This is a wonderful support group if I did not have all you guys I would be in much worse shape.

Comment by Katie Grace on October 2, 2009 at 1:27pm

Im so sorry that today has been so difficult for you. I can definately identify wtih you because even though it was painful to watch my mother die, I also knew that she didn't want to be in pain any longer. Im praying for you too and know that anniversaries are always difficult, so allow yourself permission to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself today! My heart goes out to you and hope you get the support you need today!

Comment by Stephanie on October 2, 2009 at 11:39am

This morning has been a bad morning. I lost my father to cancer 1 year and 6 months ago. The 1st year was the worst year of my life so far. I'm not sure what triggered the sadness and uncontrollable crying today...probably anything, thats how it usually is. I heard this song "my ship has finally come" and instead of me listening to it and thinking positive things I could only think of my father in Hospice dying waiting on this "ship" and how I feel like he really was not ready to get on the "ship" but he know he had no choice. Does that make any sense. I hope I am wrong but I guess today I feel sad because I know he wasn't ready to die. Now, who is ready to die....I know most people don't really want to die but I don't know how else to explain it. He knew he was dying but not ready to die so soon (within months). Even though he was extremely sick, I think myabe he thought he would beat it, or the doctors would do some kind of surgery to give him more time. Then on the other hand, I knwo he was tired of being sick and not able to care for himself. I feel like an idiot like I'm not explaining this right. Anyway, I hope the members of this group that loss someone to the horrible demon of cancer understands me. Sometimes I miss my dad so much it feels like I can't breathe. I am praying for everyone.

Comment by Julie Dolsey-Weiss on September 30, 2009 at 2:42pm

I find it amazing that as an adult I need my parents love & support so very much and they are gone. Nodody loved me, cared for me and listened to me like they do. I am still mostly numb right now but I know the pain will come through.

Comment by Diana on September 29, 2009 at 7:33pm

right now thinking and remembering the good times just make me cry like right now. And I want more with him. it just hurts. And I know it takes time. I hate this sadness.

Comment by Katherine Ellis on September 29, 2009 at 6:37pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope someday the tears stop for you and you can remember all the good times. I know it doesn't help fill your arms, your heart. But that thought has gotten me through the loss of our daughter. Your grief is so new yet. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Comment by Diana on September 26, 2009 at 10:30pm

I have lost my husband to a very aggressive lung cancer on July 20, 2009.
I looked all my life for the right man and I found him 11 years ago and now he is gone and I am so very lost.I am so sad and crying all the time and I so want him to be with me again. i know he is happy and I did not want him to suffer but now I dont know how to go on.

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