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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 15, 2011 at 9:53pm

I'm so sorry for your loss Jackie...cancer is just a bad word...my mom died of it and my dad....now I wonder if I will someday, but I try not to think on it.....

Comment by Jackie on June 15, 2011 at 8:53pm

I lost my husband, Paul, to Colon Cancer 4 months ago.  My Father and Mother also died of cancer a little over 10 years ago.  I am thinking they need to quit finding a cure and try to find a way to keep people from getting it to begin with.  Once you have it, life sucks until you die.  I miss my husband so much, he was the love of my life and nothing will be good again.

Comment by Cynthia Horacek on June 15, 2011 at 7:12pm

Barbara -

I'm sure you know that anger is part of this process that I wish no one would  have to go through ever.  Last Sunday was 7 months since my husband died, and Father's Day is going to be hard not only for my daughters, but also for me.  He was such a great dad.  I think it's okay to acknowledge that your brother's house is now your house; that doesn't mean you miss him any less or your are not thinking of him every day.  And if all you can do is cry with us, so be it.  You are where you are meant to be; this is a journey and I think if I take it just one step at a time, one after the other, eventually I'll get to where I want to be.  Hang in there.  

Comment by Barbra Ingrassia Fairman on June 15, 2011 at 6:37pm

Living without my brother will one day become normal to me....that thought makes me angry. I always refer to where I live as Richie's house, because it is. Well, I was talking with my Aunt the other night and I called it my house. My Aunt thought it was great that I am finally calling it my house, I on the other hand, am so upset over it. I don't want anyone to think that I am just accepting this. I always want to miss him and I always want this house to be Richie's. 10 steps forward and 20 steps back. I wish I was at a point where I could offer advice and help people through this but all I can do at this point is cry with you. Cancer Sucks!

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 15, 2011 at 3:08am

yes life is crazy.....and you are more than welcome Dylan....

Comment by Dylan Ishmael on June 15, 2011 at 1:29am

Thanks, Rachel!  It has been crazy.  Such is life. xo

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 14, 2011 at 2:06am

you have gone through some trials Delilah, I am so very sorry....we are here if you need us, this is a good group....it helps to get it out, and we all listen and share....you will be ok, I know what you are going through....

Comment by Dylan Ishmael on June 13, 2011 at 11:42pm

My grandma died on June 9 of lung cancer.  I came in a minute after she passed.  Tomorrow is her memorial.  For more details, check out my blog.  I also lost my mom this year (January 23) to a sudden heart attack.  What a life! http://spiritspout.blogspot.com/

Comment by Mary Elizabeth Webb on June 5, 2011 at 7:41pm

Take care Cynthia!!
You are in my prayers

Comment by Cynthia Horacek on June 5, 2011 at 7:11pm

Dear Mary Elizabeth -

Thank you!

 

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