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Comment by Monica on March 25, 2012 at 7:23pm

In dealing with sorrow and loss, it's never easy. I looked up to my father who struggled throughout his life. I always realize to take one day at a time. Everyone, including my father grieved once too over the loss of his mother and he endured a life with tremendous strength and courage. If he can endure, than I can too. As much as it hurts that he is gone, I can only wait till we meet again. Alas, each day I try to find something to smile about, because I know there's more to life than the suffering that we may feel and witness. Life keeps going forward, as we must too. 

Comment by Ron on March 24, 2012 at 9:36pm

You will never let go. What you do is put on a thicker skin. All you do in time is learn how to hide it better. That way you do not have to hear all that bull shit about how it will get better, when you know damn well it will never get better.

Comment by michael sandoval on March 24, 2012 at 6:25pm

my condolences to the new people and also to my old friends as well.

Comment by Julie on March 24, 2012 at 5:15pm

I am listening to a beautiful song by Jim Brickman called Beautiful World.
My life used to be beautiful.

Comment by Barbara Sutton on March 24, 2012 at 4:44pm

Well in one week it will be the 1 year anniversary to the loss of my sweetbaby, my husband.

Reading our comments here, I see many are experiencing the "let them go" comments. Here is what just popped in to my head, and I hope you can find the strength to use it when someone tells you to let go.....

 

I did let go, I had no control, the Lord took my sweetheart to heaven with out asking, just took them away, but what I want you to know, is that no, I will not let go, no, I will not let go of the memories, the love, and the missing them so The hurt and pain I feel so deeply is mine and I own it, if you can not support my hurt and tears, and hug me when I need it, the go....let me be...you do not understand the loss and it is easy to tell someone to let go....but it is not your heart just remember, it is mine.

Comment by Julie on March 24, 2012 at 4:27pm

Kirstine, I listened to the song the other day and it made me cry.

Comment by Julie on March 24, 2012 at 4:25pm

We are all surrounded by loss and it truly stinks beyond words. I haven't written in awhile but I read postings regularly. Last week was the two year anniversary of my beautiful husband and the whole thing is still very unreal to me. It's a horrific nightmare. I am very sad and empty inside since my husband passed on. My existence is truly meaningless without my husband. He was my everything. I am really struggling today. I miss him so very much. I used to say that it should have been me who passed away but I would not want my husband to go through what I am going through. No one should have to experience such pain and sadness. It's unfair.
My life is forever changed.

Comment by Meghann on March 24, 2012 at 3:46pm

On the 4th of February 2012 I've lost my sister, only 28 years young, after a long battle of leukemia. 

People tell me life goes on, to get over it, that there is so much to enjoy. I can't.

Ever since I'm a wreck. I can't sleep at night because I dream about her and wake up in panic because all of the sudden I realize she's not with us any longer.

With each day passing I ask myself, how much longer?

Comment by mercy on March 22, 2012 at 2:45pm

Rachel I feel the same way, how could God allow this? He was a healthy, vibrant man, very loving and caring father. He had also had many losses in his family in the last few years, his brothers are all gone and his sister too. I'm hurting so bad, I don't even have the right words to describe the pain of so many losses.

Comment by mercy on March 22, 2012 at 2:43pm

Am so sorry Michael. My sister just lost her soulmate, her husband of 32 years. I'm so devastated; I feel like we are not getting a break in my family. George was such a wonderful man, a sweet quiet soul. He died in a car wreck, only 57 years old. Please pray for my sister; I'm hurting so bad, I cannot imagine how her and the kids are coping.

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