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Comment by Laurie Finch on February 21, 2013 at 6:59am

I am so sorry for your loss and i know you are feeling a loss for your granddaughter too who is having a difficult time. I think you are right, I believe your son would want you to be in her life! Everyone needs a Grandparent. keep trying with her, maybe she will come to you for support. My daughter who loss the 2 kids(even though she is an adult) seemed to push me away for awhile and I didnt understand. But now she is coming around. We all greive differently and for some they are so lost that they dont realize that they are doing this. Hang in there and I will pray for you and your family. write me any time. 

Comment by Charlotte Riker on February 2, 2013 at 11:02pm

Ever since my son, Jeremy died on November 26, 2012, his daughter who is now 13 has treated me differently and I cannot say or do anything right.  I have tried to be patient and supportive while her Mom Dates but I guess she felt like I was not feeling her pain and just being supportive of her Mom.  She doesn't want a relationship with me any more and her mom supports whatever she wants.  I have tried to talk to her and wrote her letters letting her know how much I love her.  I have grieved and worried so much because I have felt her Dad would want me in her life and that I am letting him down.

Thank you for listening.