Trying to cope

It's going on 3 months and it still doesn't seem real. I sit looking at pictures and cry. Sometimes I can hear her voice, and I have dreams of being with her in a very pleasant place sitting down talking and she reassures me that she' s ok and to take care of myself. Some days are good and some bad. I think about her sons ages 9 and 6 and it hurts so bad.

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Permalink Reply by Ammy on December 17, 2012 at 5:22pm

Hi Maria, I am so sorry for your loss.  All of us in this group understand.  Post on the 'Missing My Son Or Daughter' page any time you feel like sharing.  I have not been on much myself lately, but I do read the posts and get the updates.  That is how I saw you joined, and I didn't see any comments here for you so I wanted to let you know you are not alone in this place.  I wish I had some words of comfort, but words really don't comfort.  I hope knowing that others care helps some.  I have been depressed myself lately so I may not be making much sense.  Have a lot going on in our lives that I would rather not have to deal with, but life does go on.  And then there are the holidays.  Need I say more?  Take care of yourself, do what you need to do for yourself.  

Permalink Reply by Maria Currie on December 17, 2012 at 5:26pm
Thank you so much Ammy
Permalink Reply by Ashley on December 25, 2012 at 1:53am

Three months is still really fresh for grief. Three months is when the shock wore off for me. I hope you can find some kind of comfort soon. 

Permalink Reply by Maria Currie on December 27, 2012 at 6:55am
Thanks Ashley I am trying taking one day at a time.

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