My Daughter, my precious Girl died over 4 years ago and she could have been helped/saved. I even started to write to Dr Phil for help since 2004

There were so many lies. So much enabling , so much abuse. Her own  Father  beat her with his fists when she became  a normal , hormonal , 13 y/o  . He beat her with his fists when she couldn't find the remote control for "his" T.V. He basically hit her for any reason. (and No. The police did nothing to help, which in itself seems criminal) I've never heard or read of any child/teen who was "okay" after this or any any other kind of abuse.  Especially from their own Parent who is supposed to Love them unconditionally  and protect them forever.  Thanks for allowing me to vent. JaneE

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Permalink Reply by kathleen akin on March 28, 2015 at 4:11pm
That's so awful. I can't imagine going thru that. How did she die?
Permalink Reply by JaneE on April 10, 2015 at 2:13pm

 @ Kathleen. She  died from drugs which she began taking after he started to physically abuse her. She told  the therapists and I and her him ( when he would bother to show up) that every time  he raised his hands to her she wanted to "numb herself" He was crying at her wake and tried to give me  a hug?!?  I pushed him off of me and if I hadn't been so drugged up by the Doctors  at the ER, I would have done way more than just pushing him. I love and miss her so much, every minute of every day. Endlessly. I am broken. 

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