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Permalink Reply by Terri Shedd Ramsour on August 18, 2013 at 2:23pm

I lost my husband to cancer in 2012 and the pain is undescribable. I get upset when I see an old couple together because we never will have that. I feel your pain and am so sorry for your loss. I am crying now. It comes in waves. I take small steps and am proud when I can. Heard our song on the radio the other day and didn't cry. Never thought that would happen but it did. It all still seems surreal to me. Like it was a bad dream.

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Permalink Reply by Mel on August 23, 2013 at 12:32am

I'm sorry for your loss and your pain! I know people will say time will heal your pain, I don't agree, but I do believe time will ease your pain and it will get better! There are so many ups and downs that you have to go through and it doesn't seem fair! I lost my husband whom I thought was the love of my life and I thought I could never find happiness and love that I had with him, nor did I want to find it! but I am happily remarried now and love my new husband. I love him differently than my late husband but just as much. So to me my late husband was the first love of my life who blessed me with 13 beautiful years together and 3 beautiful children. And my new husband is the 2nd love of my life here to bless me the rest of my life. I hope you find comfort and peace with all the love you had together and always keep am open mind and open heart to new possibilities.

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