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Permalink Reply by Margaret Delaney on September 12, 2014 at 12:14pm

I love this poem or whatever it is.  It says exactly how I feel and what I want to say to others

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Permalink Reply by Jean on October 17, 2014 at 1:38pm

There is no god.

How could "god" let this all happen?

I am done.

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 17, 2014 at 4:12pm

iv had a lot of silly stuff 

hears 1 iv bean told im not bean fair 2 evrys fealings coz it dont hrt

i bit my tung im lk in my zobbie brain thng it f@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@kig dose hrt i no i cnt hav kids but for mums/dads on hear it must hrt all eath hrts  but 2 lose a kid must be so bad

al i no i h a t e death i still feal lkng slapng god grabin hold of god scream why

why kids

why evry 1

so not fair

jo

Permalink Reply by Jesse's Mom on October 17, 2014 at 8:13pm

I actually had one person from the church I attend think that somehow this was some kind of a ministry opportunity to the woman who ran over my son. Like I was supposed to see some kind of silver lining. In the meantime, this woman has six living children. I have two dead sons. One infant and one at 28.

or the other bullshit of having someone hand you a book on forgiveness. My son laid dying in that ditch because of that bitch's continued irresponsible behavior. We also found out she was a meth head later. And the dumb ass sheriff dept. did not do a drug screen on her, one quick search on the legal records (which are public in my state) revealed what a long time loser she was.

I think I would spit on her in her jail cell if I could.

Permalink Reply by Brenda Ann on May 12, 2015 at 8:45am

     Ok, I have been sitting here trying to figure out what this lady from your church was thinking. Surly the lady that ran over your son truly needs ministering to . . .  But just as surly please tell me, she didn't mean that this is now "your" ministry??? I understand your anger, but not even God forgives without genuine repentance and works that befit repentance. . .  Has she begged your forgiveness? Has she stopped doing drugs etc. that was the underlining cause of your son's death? Repentance marks a halt in the person’s wrong course, the rejection of that wrong way, and the determination to take a right course.
     This woman is responsible for her own repentance. You nor anyone else can "get through" to her if she is not begging forgiveness and showing that her repentance is not just sorrow over being caught. A requirement of forgiveness is works that befit forgiveness. She has to be moved from her own heart to turn around from her past course and never to return to her former course of action. Her repentance is not your responsibility.

     I think the reason people say such hurtful things is because they don't think before they open their mouth.

         

Permalink Reply by Linda on March 8, 2015 at 11:21pm

People often say stupid things because they don't know what to say. I actually had someone send my sons obituary in the mail to me inside a sympathy card LIKE I DIDNT KNOW! Everytime I see that women I want to tell her not to ever do that again!

Permalink Reply by mmm on May 11, 2015 at 9:12pm

When my own mother called and told me "it was for the best" it was like a knife cut out what is left of my heart. I know she didn't mean to hurt me, but it made me so angry. I actually yelled at my mother.

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on May 25, 2015 at 2:01pm

i dont no wear 2 post it on hear or ot not i got told 2 get over it irs slf  pitty get over all my losses 

dont no how im gona get over all my losses dont no how any of us can get over it 

Permalink Reply by Patty on April 24, 2016 at 11:35am

"Why didn't you have more children?"  Months after I lost my only child, my beautiful Caitlin.

Permalink Reply by Cindy on July 3, 2016 at 2:50pm

Wow! Patty, that is the most STUPID and MEAN comment ever! I hope no one ever says that to me because I'm sure I won't be able to hold myself back from returning meanness back!

Permalink Reply by Patty on July 3, 2016 at 7:38pm

Cindy, I was actually asked that at least 3 times.  It was really hard to believe that people would say such a thing at the most terrible time of my life.  It shocked me so much I didn't know what to say.

Permalink Reply by B.Windsor on March 26, 2017 at 8:50pm

"i understand your pain"---and either they don't have any children of their own or their children are safe and sound.  *sigh

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