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Sabharwal
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I lost my beloved wife Suman in a horrible car accident in New Delhi, India on 12/21/2010. I was sitting next to her in the back seat but I survived with severe injuries. I have been miserable without her and miss her all the time. Why couldn't I go with her? It has been almost two years and the emotional pain is not going away.

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Today is my wedding anniversary and I feel so lonely and horrible without my beloved wife - Suman. I lost her two years ago in a tragic car accident. People say that it gets easier over time, but I feel miserable and miss her all the time. I wish that I am able to join her wherever she is

Posted on December 9, 2012 at 7:49am

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At 5:55pm on April 21, 2013, Katelyn Cockrell said…

Thank you Raj. I really appreciate your kind words. The pain of losing your spouse is indescribable and not many people can fathom it. I keep you in my prayers. 

At 4:14pm on March 22, 2013, Sandy Thompson Harris said…

Thank you for sharing.  It helps.  There are so many people that don't get it and their worlds are the same and ours are forever changed.  I'm glad there are people like you that can empathize with me.

At 6:35pm on December 19, 2012, Kelly Jo Perkins said…

I am very sorry for the loss of your wife.  I lost my sister in the same way four years ago.  I lost my husband four months ago and i don't know who I am any more.  I had 24 years with him and that was not nearly long enough.  I wish...that is a funny expression...I wish...when you think about it wishing doesn't do any good and life goes on with or without us.  I hope to talk to you soon.  Glad to add you as a friend. 

Kelly Perkins

 

At 3:59pm on December 18, 2012, Chloe said…

Hi Raj, I have tried to send you several emails today but I don't know if you got any of them. Please let me know ok. My email address is chloe.damar@aol.com

At 6:31pm on December 15, 2012, Chloe said…

Hi Raj,  I wish I could say something that would make you feel better.  I know it is terrible when our loved ones that have passed birthdays come around.  Its hard for me too.  My husband's funeral was on Valentine's Day.  So, now, even if I dare to fine love again, Valentines Day will always suck for me no matter what. Love, Chloe

At 9:30pm on December 14, 2012, Chloe said…

Hi Raj, I haven't heard from you and I am getting worried. Please write me back ok. Chloe

At 9:15pm on December 12, 2012, Raj said…
Hi Chloe. Thanks for ur kind message... I totally understand how you feel after 4 years of ur loss. It is going to be 2 years for me and I don't think I can survive 4 years without Suman - my beloved wife. I want to be with her NOW and I wish God makes it happen soon. You r right about talking to ur family n friends about it all the time n I get the feeling that they have their lives to live so I keep my feelings to myself. After all they r not responsible for what happened... God has punished me for my past deeds either from this life or past lives n I have to face it. But it is nice to hear from someone like you who cares... Stay in touch. If u want to chat anytime, my email is raj.sabharwal@verizon.net.
Your caring friend,
Raj
At 8:16am on December 12, 2012, Chloe said…

Hi Raj, Hope you are doing well.  Haven't heard from you.  I will always be hear from you if you just need someone to talk to.  I know how hard it is sometimes to talk with family or every day friends to talk to.  My grief has been going on for almost 4 yrs later and it still feels like yesterday to me.  My family & friends then I should be over all this by now.  I would love to hear back from you.  You can write here or you can email me at chloe.damar@aol.com....Goodbye Friend, Chloe

 
 
 

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