Phil Bergin
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"Hi Phil - Thank you for sharing about your lovely wife, Chiko. It's evident what a kind and special person she was. I've heard that orchids are challenging to grow so she must have had a very gentle and talented touch. Your story about…"
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"Hi Rosie, Thank you for giving me the chance to talk about my wife, Chikako (Chiko for short).  She was Japanese and were were married way back when I was stationed in Japan.  It really was love at first sight.  She was so cute. …"
Jun 12, 2021
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"Hi Phil, Thank you for sharing. Again, I'm so very sorry. I cannot fathom what that must feel like to be with your soulmate so long and now be without them. I'm here if you ever want to share about your wife - what did she like to do?…"
Jun 11, 2021
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"Hi Rosie, Thank you for welcoming me to the site.  I'm desperately trying to deal with my grief at the loss of my wife.  She was my constant companion and I had expected that I would go first, but the universe had a different plan I…"
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About Me:
I'm 78 years old. I am retired from the Navy (after 30 years) and I also retired from the Spokane Police Dept as a Records Supervisor. I now just work as a grandfather.
About my Loss:
My wife passed away last year. We had been married for 55 years and we were together constantly. I miss her so much.
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At 9:30pm on June 12, 2021, Rosie said…

Hi Phil - Thank you for sharing about your lovely wife, Chiko. It's evident what a kind and special person she was. I've heard that orchids are challenging to grow so she must have had a very gentle and talented touch. Your story about meeting her was very touching. I'm so sorry that you're experiencing such grief and hope you can find some comfort here.

At 9:34pm on June 11, 2021, Rosie said…

Hi Phil,

Thank you for sharing. Again, I'm so very sorry. I cannot fathom what that must feel like to be with your soulmate so long and now be without them. I'm here if you ever want to share about your wife - what did she like to do? What were your favorite things about her? No worries if you don't want to - but I've found that the best we can do in this situation is help keep our loved ones memories alive. This is a great group so share and make sure they are never forgotten. Take care - Rosie

 
 
 

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