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Retired teacher.
About my Loss:
I lost my husband just before Christmas to cancer. The diagnosis was made just three weeks before he died. It was a very aggressive cancer.
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My husband

My husband died on December 22nd after just 3 weeks of hospital care for cancer.  It went so fast I still can't process it all.  About every other day, I have sore sinuses from crying so much.  I see his last picture, I cry.  I see his lighter, I cry.  I see his drivers license, and yes I cry.  Then it seems I can move on a little.  It feels a bit like I just dove off the deep end, and the water is so deep I can't see the surface.  I think that when I reach the surface I will have learned to…

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Posted on December 30, 2013 at 1:30am — 1 Comment

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At 6:06am on January 10, 2014, Nana said…
Thank you for your support
At 3:22am on January 9, 2014, anna l. said…

Hi Nana, Welcome to a place none of us wanted to be, but at least we can understand each other here.

My husband had a little more time than yours but it was such downhill ride the 9 weeks did not feel that long. 

The crying is normal.  I call my tears kisses.  When Tom was here I could show my love with kisses.  Now my tears are expressions of the love that lives on after he is gone.  I do not make excuses for my tears and neither should you. 

If you need to talk, I am here to listen and understand.

 
 
 

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