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- About Me:
- Retired teacher.
- About my Loss:
- I lost my husband just before Christmas to cancer. The diagnosis was made just three weeks before he died. It was a very aggressive cancer.
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My husband
My husband died on December 22nd after just 3 weeks of hospital care for cancer. It went so fast I still can't process it all. About every other day, I have sore sinuses from crying so much. I see his last picture, I cry. I see his lighter, I cry. I see his drivers license, and yes I cry. Then it seems I can move on a little. It feels a bit like I just dove off the deep end, and the water is so deep I can't see the surface. I think that when I reach the surface I will have learned to…
ContinuePosted on December 30, 2013 at 1:30am — 1 Comment
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Hi Nana, Welcome to a place none of us wanted to be, but at least we can understand each other here.
My husband had a little more time than yours but it was such downhill ride the 9 weeks did not feel that long.
The crying is normal. I call my tears kisses. When Tom was here I could show my love with kisses. Now my tears are expressions of the love that lives on after he is gone. I do not make excuses for my tears and neither should you.
If you need to talk, I am here to listen and understand.