Collette Hoag
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  • Hoosick Falls, NY
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My name is Collette. I am 21 years old. I am currently attending the University of Phoenix online pursuing an associate's degree in Human Services Management. I am currently unemployed. I love listening to music, shopping, the internet, reading, and spending time with my family, especially my 5 year old neice.
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I have two losses. Five years ago on May 10th, 2005 I lost my mom. She had a routine hysterectomy and ended up have a pulmonary embolism (blood clot in the lungs). She passed away in our house in front of my father, sister, and myself.

Next, on April 16th of this year, I lost my boyfriend in a very sudden car crash. He died instantly when he collided with a delievery box truck. I drove up onto the accident and was the one to provide indentification. I was actually supposed to be in the car with him that morning, but I ended up leaving an hour after he did with a friend. He has only been gone for a little over two months. I loved this man more than anything in the world.

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Having a very hard time

Hello. I'm new to the group and am feeling my way around the site. I lost my mother five years ago and the most recent, and main reason for joining this community, I lost the love of my life and best friend, my boyfriend, Brian. This happen on April 16th of this year so it's only been a little over two months. He hit head-on a delivery box truck and flipped over several times. He died on impact, which helps a little bit because I know he didn't suffer or experience any pain. Still, I'm having a… Continue

Posted on June 28, 2010 at 11:31pm

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At 5:53pm on September 20, 2010, John Bilanchiardini said…
Collette I lost 4 people in recent years . My grandmother, Aunt, Dad and Mom. So I know the pain and anguish you feel. I have lived it. I would like to reach out to you and share and be a caring compassionate good friend. I am a Christian and I know helping others has always been something I do. But I read your story and it touched me. I am so very sorry. I am here to share, John
 
 
 

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In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
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