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About Me:
I will soon undergo the empty nest syndrome my youngest graduates from HS next month. My oldest is already a freshman in college. I am very well educated and lawyer by training. I also FINALLY ended an emotional and physically abusive marriage (19 yrs) two years ago. I enjoy my career and social life. I have awesome children and the 2-3 people I consider friends are indeed friends.
About my Loss:
I lost my father almost 20 years ago. He died of a massive heart attack. Quickly and cleanly. He left the house to take care of business and did not come home. I lost my mother recently in March of 2010. She got sick on my birthday in November of 2009. She had a brain tumor and she never fully recovered. She tried so hard to. I was in a bad place because I knew my sisters were prepared to try any and everything to keep her alive especially my youngest sister. I was the more practical one but I had to hold it within because I did not want to be accused of giving up. I was also viewed as the corporate bossy one so I had to be a bit more low key to keep the peace. I also acted as a referree when my two sisters argued about the care of my mother. My mom died a horrible slow death. She suffered. I was seeing a therapist with my girls after my husband and I separated but I also see him on a monthly and of course I talk about my mother. She was indeed a beautiful person and miss her so much. She was the glue that kept all my brothers and sisters and I together. Sometimes I feel good but at night I have an especially bad time.

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