Hi Carri, Any time at all. I'm only too happy to talk. I've just finished writing a song about going through the grief process. I had intented to record it much sooner but life got in the way, as it often does. I will record it quite soon and will post it tothe list in the hope that it helps people onthis very difficult and painfull journey. I feel your sadness, pain and loss as it does affect everyone differently. Please don't let anyone tell you that it will only last a specific time. It will last until you or anyone comes to terms with the loss of someone we dearly love. One thing I did find on the sit is that the more we loved someone, the longer that time will be. There is no definite time. It can last forever. We do come to terms with it eventualy. Sharing our pain and loss is a way to help that journey easier. I had some really good friends on here once but they have moved on. One or two remain here. It is the suddeness, the unexpectedness, the sheer and overwhelming loss that is also difficult to comprehend. Not only that but saying goodbye is also very painfull. All those emotions and it is no wonder we can't deal with it. Thank you for wanting to talk. I'm here for you anytime. huggggs.