Ugh

It's bad enough I have to stay on this earth after my husband is gone......then I think I found someone again and he takes his own life.
It just seems that men over 40 and after divorce just don't want a relationship and they're perfectly comfortable leading women on to believe they do just to get what they want.
I really thought time would make it easier and I could be happy again.
Time does not heal anything
Time only makes more days between meltdowns.

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Comment by Billy Jo Colt on January 3, 2017 at 2:57am

Hi Melony, i'm writing this not to belittle your efforts or to say anything else than, don't give in on life. I have tried so many times and i'm being totally genuine. I am a blind guy and get rejected continualy. To have a new start and then that person leaves you the way he did is not helpful to you at all. You weren't to know so please don't blame yourself. Go out there and find someone special. You will, I promise you will. You are too young to give up. Love is much better than none. Trust me.

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