Dad says I can take my time. My brother wants to get it done. Neither one will do it without me. I'm not ready. I feel like I'm being selfish. I've told them to box it all up and I'll do it when I'm ready. It's as if Dad doesn't want to give anything to my brother or the Grandkids without my approval. She was his wife for almost 40 years he can do what he wants. I have my memory's and the stuff she wanted me to have she already gave me. I don't have kids so it will all go to my nieces and nephews when I pass. I feel selfish... Not ready to face it. So many memories and I know we will find things from my deceased brother. It does not seem fair!