Since my dad passed away I have been writing letters to him.  Some just tell him about what I've been up to, but most just tell how how miserable I've been since losing him.  I had a dream about him last night, in it he came to see me to tell me the cancer had spread again into his sinuses.  I kept crying telling him this wasnt supposed to happen any more.

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Comment by Carolyn Halsey-Minnick on March 27, 2011 at 12:14am
Thank you for your comment.  It was miserable, its getting close to the anniversary of his death, I'm hoping the dreams will settle after. Its hard to write to them, I think it kinda helps to feel connected.
Comment by Sean Casey on March 24, 2011 at 11:19pm

I know I've written a bit to my wife since she killed herself.  I'm sure I'll have more to write as time goes on.

 

I'm sorry to hear you had that kind of dream.  That sounds utterly miserable.  I hope it's the last of that type you have.  *hugs*

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