It's almost a year since my dad passed! :(

I am so stressed, thinking about my father. I can't sleep at night because I'm constantly thinking about him and wondering where he is. It still feels so surreal, and I constantly keep reminding myself of the events that happend at the time of his passing until the the day we buried him. I am constantly having flashbacks of his funeral service as well as him being buried. I often just think of him laying in his grave, eventhough I know it's not him. What should I do to stop feeling this way? I love my dad dearly and I find it hard to cope, because I have no answers yet. I have also come to the realization that answers may never show.  This is one of the most truly hardest events of my life. I need advice. Please help! :(

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Comment by dream moon JO B on March 12, 2013 at 4:14pm

i fnd my self doing i understand how u feal buren i had my dads 1st yr anversy lst weak the 3rd of march i still feal lik a lost child

it seams worse after 1 yr it dosepeple say it gets easyer i dnt thnk it dose sory if im saying evry thg wong

iv fond my sef doing goging on googl earth and trvling frm a to zin plase jst to tak my mind off thngs i did usa ystrerday canada today tmrowo i will try som wear difrent even fond my self tking foto of maps and images of plase on it i jst neaded to sothg crazty to tak my mind off thngs

sory if iv bean no help

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