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Comment by Alin Tooby on June 10, 2016 at 5:23pm

Welcome to the group Corey.  I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Like you i also lost my mother, just three months ago. It is an insane concept to think that we will never see out beloved mothers again. You sound like you were very close with your mom so i am sure she was very special.   I too think about how hard it will be to get married some day with her there.   Sadly i lost my dad too, just 8 monts before i lost my mom.  I think about how unfair it will be if i have kids some day, that they will never get to hang out with grandma and grandpa.   It really does suck and it also hurts like hell.   Some days it just to much to grasp and i cant control the tears from falling from my eyes. Other days i wake up and see their pictures, Wish them good morning and go on my way.  Either way, every day is the same in the sense that we are here and they are not. It is nice to have out memories and it is also nice to have a place where we can come and talk about our hurt and loss without any judgement. The venting that you can receive here from a few blurbs can be a huge relief on the aching heart. It also doesnt hurt to talk to your dear mom. Perhaps in speaking to her when you need advice, the answers will come to you.    I hope you can find comfort and peace soon. Blessings and hugs.

Sincerely,

Alin 

Comment by Corey on June 6, 2016 at 10:39am

This is also my first post on here. I dont have to many friends and I don't want to keep turning to my girlfriend when I'm upset. Even though she said I can always talk to her about it. I feel pathetic when I'm upset,. It makes matters more upsetting that, when I'm upset or going through a tough time I want to talk to my mum again and get her advice.
Anne Marie Downs, I love and miss you so much.. Thankyou the love and patience, the care and time you had for me. Thank you for everything.