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Comment by Sandy G on August 14, 2011 at 6:56pm

Yes, let's! Thank-you for posting

Comment by MIchael A Ballard on August 9, 2011 at 2:04am

Finding the strength that you need is right inside of you.  It's right in your heart, in your love for him.

Ask your husband out loud to help you deal with all of this, beg him for his help if you must, and guess what, you will begin feeling a lot better and stronger every day!  And that is a promise!

He is inside and around you, you better believe it.  My wife and mom are still hanging around!
Make your days happy!
Blessings to you, 

Michael 

Comment by Amanda Ab on August 8, 2011 at 11:05pm

I am sorry for your looses. Your words are very amazing and give me hope. I have lots of trouble adapting to this new chapter in my life. I did not plan it or did I ever imagine it. My life changed in 360 degrees in minutes due to my husband being murdered. I cannot accept that he is no longer here physically and that I can no longer see him, touch him or hear his voice. It is overwhelming really. I have always been a believer that our loved ones are here spiritually, even when I lost my father last year. But now that my husband passed away, in a way it hit so close to me, my partner, my friend, my one and only, that I cannot seem to accept that he is no longer here, and that he is spirit. I hope you understand me. Its just that we were so close. We spend all of the time together. We knew each other half of our lives that I cannot get to the idea that he is no longer here. However, I do have many, many, dreams with him. I tell you that I dream with him almost every night. Some dreams, are usual dreams, that he did not die, and that he comes back home to us. And there is other dreams I have that my husband is completely upset and angry towards me and does not want to talk to me or see me. I dont know what to think about them. I cry often, very much, because I cannot accept this "new" life without him. I want my "old" life back. Why cant I have it back?.  My old life included the love of my life, my husband, and father to my son, we were a family!  Thanks so much for reading. And look forward to your postings.