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Comment by MIchael A Ballard on February 1, 2012 at 8:41pm

Hello Dorothy! You are with a great group and welcome, unfortunately. Am sorry for your loss also. Has been 10 months without my wife. It somehow gets easier or at least at times more tolerable. Take good care! Michael

Comment by Lori B. on January 17, 2012 at 8:34pm

thats a lovely post dorothy.  My husband too passed away , he died in July 2011, and just as i begi to think I'm doing ok, i don't seem to be, i do the daily  stuff, work, cleaning and even socialise, but its all so vacant, i almost feel like i'm participating in someone elses life.  i don't know why but this lasy week or so has been harder, its just something we have to get through, tho i am faltering i am continueing to push thru life, and am really trying to find myself again without him, thats been the hardest for me. i have good friends and great family and that helps but somehow in the end its each of us that has to figure it all out for ourselves...working on it everyday and i know i'm making headway, but then i slide back, and kep on going with life once again.  We'll all figure it out, but it really does take time. anyone who doesn't think so probably has not lost a very dear to them person.  have a very good tomarow. Lori

 

Comment by Amanda Ab on January 15, 2012 at 11:42pm

Hi Dorothy and Anna. I am here too!!.  I totally understand the words Lonely & Sad. And unfortunately deal with them on a minute basis. I miss my husband every minute, hour, day. And at times it just hurts so very much that feel that I will never be any better.

 

Comment by anna l. on January 15, 2012 at 11:24pm

Hi Dorothy.  Me too!  Me too!  Lonely and sad......  Time goes by and no matter how hard I try to wrap my head around the fact that last year my love got sick and then died I just cant.  I hear a noise and I think Toms home...  The dogs bark and head for the back door and I think, Toms home.... I look at a clock and think time to make breakfast, lunch, dinner, because Tom must be getting hungry. I imagine you do similiar things and it hurts each and every time like a knife to the heart.  So I understand sad and lonely very well indeed and it sucks!!!!!!!