i found along my journey from my moms passing on 12 22 2010 then 4 months later my granddaughter passed this journey taught me most people do not valadate the griving cause life does go on for some that do not esperince ths ,,,,,,i do miss my mom but i think i have days were i am ok as for my grandaughter i do not speak of it it is best not to i keep that totally in check i just think that i shouldnt or i dont feel to so i do not not that it never happened it did i just not ready....as for ewhat i been up to is my daughter got married in feb last year my other granddaughter is growing like a weed and i also married in september with my kids by my side and the grandbabies as well i have a crochet addiction that keeps my mind in check but i do have days i hope everyone here is doing well