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Comment by bluebird on July 3, 2014 at 7:58pm

Elizabeth,

I just saw your posts.  I wanted to say that I almost never check the blogs here, just the forums, so although I try to respond to people if I feel I have something to say, I never even saw your blog post.  There may be others like me, who look at the forums more than the blogs, in which case they may not have seen your blog post either.  So please don't feel badly that you haven't gotten more responses, it may very well just be a matter of your post not having been seen.

 

That said, I am very sorry your father died.  My father (and mother, and sister) are thankfully still alive, but my husband died, and my life ended when his did, so I do understand devastating loss.

--bluebird

Comment by anne on July 1, 2014 at 1:50pm

Dear Elizabeth, sometimes we don't know what to say. I still have my father, but I have lost both of my sons. Any kind of loss is difficult. I have lost a few of my dearest pets also. Yes it is devastating even after the loss of my children. I guess I don't know much about losing a father, but I do know much about loss. Grief does not come with instructions. You just do the best you can. It's a journey that only you can decide which way to go. I write. Writing gives me a way to cope, and a way to express feelings that no one else understands. Coming here is a good step in the right direction. We are all compassionate here, but sometimes our own grief takes up what little ideas we have. You may not get the responses you would like, but I know when you write here someone is thinking of you. I'm sad you lost your father, and I am thinking of you. If I can help just drop me a note. Sincerely Anne

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 30, 2014 at 3:52pm

no u r not doing any thng wong i lost my dad in 2012 iv not bean rht sisne sorry abot yore loss as well i foget 2 say 

try chat if any 1 is on i no sm days chat is bit so so thrse a lot on or no 1 on

big c word mks me sic coz iv lost a lot 2 it on my dads sid of famly 

join i lov my dad grp thrs a lot of us on it

ont no if any 1 else is getng thes pop ups its blockng screans it can stop us getng on sorry abot yore loss

i wud be grt if our dads wear still hear