My mother was suddenly diagnoised with a unknown cancer and had 6 months to live in 2009. I have a brother and sister also. My mother prepared her financial affairs before her death.  After my mother's passing my sister was suppose to give me and my brother money my mother had at home. Instead for 3 months my sister would not talk to me or give me any of the money. I would ask her numerous times what did I do to you. She would just say you did not do anything and kept all the money.  My mother also had instructed her neice to pay certain bills and make numerous donations to churches in my mothers name from a checking account my mother had. I found out that she did not pay anything and emptied out the checking account. I told my brother and sister what I found out about her empting out the bank account. After this my sister starts talking to me again.  I researched on the internet and took the case on against my mother's neice  to get the money back she took out the account. I represented my mothers estate as administrator and as my own attorney (pro se).  This process went on from August 2009 to October 2010 with me filing motions and alot of paperwork against her and months and months of tears and hard work. I received no help at all from my brother and sister through out this WHOLE process.  She was ordered by the court to return the money or face felony charges. Now my sister and brother appear in court on settlement day when I receive the check for the Estate. I gave them their share and now they will not even talk to me again. I Love my Mother so much and miss her.  I still cry every day. I have lost my mother and brother and sister.