My husband of 41 years died 7 years ago. He had congestive heart failure, cardiomyopathy, and eventually liver failure. He was on life support for over 5 months. I eventually had to take him off life support and help him to let go and die. It was a very painful thing to do. Three years later, our youngest daughter went into sudden cardiac arrest and was put on life support for a week before I was told her brain was swelling too much and only her brain stem was functioning. I had to allow her…