My brother of 67 years lost his partner J last week.

They had been together for 30 years and had a civil partnership.

It seems there is very little literature on gay bereavement and also on how best to support LGBT population.

I know my brother is a 'sturdy oak' type no 'sissy stuff' and doesn't allow his emotions to show at all.  I belief this is a trait he has adapted from my mother.

I go to pieces and cry when upset for normal good reasons and wonder if anyone…