My husband of 55 years died recently from a battle with dementia.  (6 years or so).  I was his primary caregiver until the last 6 months when he went into hospice and residential care.  The first week I was pretty much in shock and now as things seem to be settling I have still been overwhelmed with paper work, (bank, insurance, etc).  I can't seem to get my priorities straight.  I also want to go back to my…