Vicki I am here for you. It is terrible to lose our loved ones. I am still in shock not knowing what to do with myself. My husband Vern and I have been dealing with his illness for 6 years. now there is just emptiness. I am mad about how we were treated at the transplant center, we had such incompetent uncaring transplant coordinators and support staff. Vern had his first transplant in 2007 at a differnt transplant center and because our insurance changed we needed to go elsewhere for medical care. vern died during his surgery and we were given more support from the first transplant center than the one where he died. I am angery that Vern was insignificant to them.