Tina-we just moved from Sacramento to Arizona since we lost our son. I was born and raised in Sac. I never thought I would leave. My son was 33 years old and unbeknownst to me he was an alcoholic. We were very close, but I never knew and my daughter in law never told us. My therapists and all I talk to think she is an alcoholic too. She will not speak to me anymore. She doesn't understand that I am a grieving mother. She just doesn't understand nor does she want to understand. She doesn't respect my feelings at all. They had no children so it made sense to move here to be close to my other son. I worked for the State and my husband worked at Folsom Prison. If we stayed in California I could never have been able to retire. It is a lot less expensive here to live. Please do not hesitate to send me messages. I walk around kind of in a daze most days wanting them to be over but then there is just another day to get through. Big hugs! With love Jill
Oh and I always sign off with WYWH. (My sign to my Joshie-Wish You Were Here)