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Tammy Fowler
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- Sapphire, NC
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- About Me:
- I was orphaned at age 8 when my Mother and her long term boyfriend died in a car wreck. He was drinking beer all day and she got into the car with him. I saw her alive only once after that. She was in a coma and a blood clot got into her heart. She was on life support just long enough for myself and my 3 siblings to say goodbye to her.
My biological Father abandoned the family when I was 2 years old. He didn't want us because he had another family in a different county.
My Mother's last request was for her youngest sister to take care of us and keep us together. She had 4 children of her own and a perverted husband who loved little girls. My first week at their house he molested me. He threatened me with my siblings going away like my Mother did. Almost 1 year later she started adopting us out. My brother was adopted first, then my younger sister. My older sister was 15 and got married. I was never adopted. I fell through the cracks of the foster system in South Carolina. I went to 10 families and some of them twice. I'm not physically or mentally challenged. I don't know why I was never adopted. I just wasn't good enough for these families or they enjoyed passing me around. God only knows.
- About my Loss:
- He had been drinking beer all day and she got into the car with him. I didn't see him alive again. He died that night. Mother lived for 18 days, in the hospital. I saw her alive only once after that. She was in a coma and a blood clot got into her heart. She was on life support just long enough for myself and my 3 siblings to say goodbye to her.
My Mother's last request was for her youngest sister to take care of us and keep us together. She had 4 children of her own and a perverted husband who loved little girls. My first week at their house he molested me. He threatened me with my siblings going away like my Mother did. Almost 1 year later she started adopting us out. My brother was adopted first, then my younger sister. My older sister was 15 and got married. I was never adopted. I fell through the cracks of the foster system in South Carolina. I went to 13 foster family homes. I'm not physically or mentally challenged. I don't know why I was never adopted. I just wasn't good enough to stay with these families long term. They enjoyed passing me around. God only knows why.
I have never had a stable relationship with siblings, relatives or with anyone. I've tried over the years to get to know my sibs but we're just people who have the same dead Mother.
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