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About Me:
I am 9 years younger than my sister who was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer at the age of 68 years. In 1988, Our dad was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer at the same age but died 13 days after diagnosis. My mom and dad are gone. My sister is on her way. We are the two children of our family.
About my Loss:
I haven't lost her physically. I'm scared. My heart pounds and I feel immobilized. I might be in the wrong support group? I need help processing this. I don't know what to say to her and there's a wall between us. This is new for me. If there are any suggestions out there, I'm open. Currently seeks by a counselor, but with my insurance, it may take a while.
Are You a Service Provider? If Yes, please tell us about your service.
No. Also, I am not a caretaker by nature. That is something that has always been understood by my family.

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At 2:08pm on March 26, 2017, morgan said…

Pat,  There is nothing that will prepare you for your sisters death.  If there was there wouldn't be someday of us on this website trying to figure out how it is that we could be in such pain and don't know what to do to cope.   I am going to say that reading here will let you know that you do not suffer alone.  Each of us is impacted by a certain relationship that meant the world to us.  Mine was my husband.  I started studying physics right away and have used that as one of my tools.  It reminds me that the cosmos is a lot larger and there must be something outside of this small focus we normally reside in.  I wish as much peace as you can find in this difficult time.  We are all here for each other. 

 
 
 

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