Dear Nicky,

   I was trying to find the words that would let you know that I am glad to meet you - but - I wish you had no reason to have found our group. I wish that Tristan were playing and laughing in the background and you had no time for such a group because you were caring for him - that is how it should be. You have found a loving caring group that understands the pain you are feeling. I believe that God is the greatest source of comfort and that as you lean on him, he will carry you through. Do you believe that too?

   Your words broke my heart, "everyday I think to myself that I must have been a real terrible person to have had my lil boy taken away from me." It seems to me that if you were in anyway a terrible person, you sure would not be here grieving. Instead you would be living it up with your "new" freedom. Truth is you are a very GOOD Mom - A loving mom that misses everything about your little boy. Please don't lose sight of your value. Take a look at yourself through your Tristan’s eyes - what did he see?  Additionally who could ever take your son away from you?  The cruelty of that would be beyond comprehension.

   I look forward to talking with you and getting to know you. 

Always,

Brenda

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