Mark.....I too have very little Support system. My story is very long and complicated and if you want to hear about it I will write it all for you. Nobody seems to understand the pain that does not go away and no after 6 months people assume that I should move on and start living again. The thought is terrifying....I have 2 teenage girls from a failed marriage....and the eldest is leaving home at the end of this month...yet another loss.  What are we supposed to do in situations which are so unfair?