sorry to hear of the loss of your mum...I lost both my parents years ago, and just recently lost my 22 year old son suddenly and without warning...my heart goes out to you..my granddad came from County Down when he was 14..he came to the US by himself and eventually became a congressman in the state of New Hampshire..my grammie and me were close, but grampy was always busy in his paper mills...he was good to us tho...my mum was the sweetest kindest lady I've ever known and so very smart...never got the respect she deserved from the people she worked with, but it didn't make her any less hardworking and honest to the core...my dad was a stoic Scot, who saved everything and would hide his tears from us..but inside he was a softie...well Im having another sleepless night...I fall asleep during the daytime and then can't sleep at night...well I just will send you a hug then?