thankyou so much.yeah,i noticed that because drugs were involved in my sisters death that alot of people just catagorized it as "just a drug thing".like she somehow deservrd it or was asking for it.as if most people who use drugs r just"wooohooo" tryin to have a good time,when the truth is most people who self medicate are actually trying to escape some mantal or physical agony.and the whole of their life/person is so much more than the drugs they did.hope ur havin an ok day.take care:)