Dear Jo, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son; I am new on this page, as well, having just lost my mother. I hope that it will bring us both some comfort; it's admirable that you want to do something in your son's memory. I write for a living, and so that has already brought me some peace, and I have an extensive page up on a memorial site (I am not sure if I can mention it by name?). Seeing all the flowers and notes left not only for Mom but my dad, brother, son and so on (yes, that looks depressing when typed out), definitely helps me. I wish you lots of love and strength - Best, Rhonda C. Poynter