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About Me:: 34, married, no children, ONE cat now...MY BABY DIED IN MY ARMS JUST A FEW DAYS AGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

About my Loss:: My biological mother died on Feb. 6, 2008 (one week before my 34th birthday). She passed from a sudden heart attack.

In addition, I have lost 3 pregnancies as well as my mental and physical health.

I have been "sick" for 3 years now and am housebound.

At 6:11am on February 13, 2009, Diana, Grief Recovery Coach said…: Happy Birthday, Jenny

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RHTN0sSXDEQ

At 10:14am on February 12, 2009, Margaret R. said…: Best wishes on your birthday! I hope the day goes gentle.

At 5:52pm on January 9, 2009, Angel Jason's Mom said…: Hi Jenny, my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your losses.

At 9:11am on October 21, 2008, Diana, Grief Recovery Coach said…: Hi Jenny,
I'm so sorry for your loss. If you need anything let me know. I'm just an email away.

At 5:44pm on October 17, 2008, Rosemary said…: Hi Jenny,

Yes, "robbed" is EXACTLY how I feel. Lou and I had no children together and I did everything myself from planning the service to having his body taken care of. The same night he died in the ER I went home by myself from the hospital. It has been a nightmare! I work long hours to keep busy (and pay bills) so I guess in a way that is a diversion.

I am so sorry for your loss. How old was your mother? My Lou was only 67 (I know to some people that is old but he was in such great shape and doctors contstantly gave him a clean bill of health). He seemed healthier than I was and I am 21 years younger than him. He was my soul mate; the PERFECT husband. I was the number one priority in his life and he let me know it every day. How does one go on without that?

Did you have these health issues before your Mom's death? Do you see any relief in sight? I have a feeling if I got sick now I just would not care.

Thanks for writing. Let's keep in touch. Having someone to vent to is always good. I also check in with Hospice of the Valley Grief Healing Discussion Groups. they are an excellent resource.

Rosemary