Heath, how on earth did anyone raise so much money on Go Fund Me? We put one up and not quite $1,000 came in, but that's it. I'm dissapointed with my huge family. ONly one or 2 came through, but mostly it's my FB friends and some are unknown to me. Which blows me away that a stranger would do that.  $1,000 isn't really going to make a dent...but I''m grateful. I would like to know how to promote his Go Fund Me site without going on a begging spree. We literally live paycheck to paycheck and our landlord is forgiving the rent right now, but that's not going to help long term. It's not going to help me when I'm left holding the bag when Rocky dies. I don't know what to do other than plan on filing bankruptcy. I will HAVE to do that. And it might now be sooner than later since now Rocky wants to go off chemo and just have "quality of life" which I can't blame him, but I want him to TRY to live...for me. For us. I don't know what to do. SS has not come through yet although it's supposed to this month (I think) He is just beyond worrying about money...why should he? I wouldn't care about bills that are there if I were dying would I? but I have life ins. but who is going to get that now. He has nothing to leave me and he doesn't seem all that concerned. I'm already on my own aren't I?