Derek Dannhaeuser
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About Me:
I'm a father of three beautiful boys
About my Loss:
Forgive me for the lengthy post. About a week ago, after 20 yrs of what I thought was a great marriage, my wife decided she wanted a separation. Pretty much her words is that she wanted me to be prepared for the worst if feelings continue to develope for this other person. What's worse is this other person is someone who I work with. I was totally blind sided by her wanting to seek out other relationships. Yes, I knew we had our problems and I noticed she was a bit distant lately, but nothing that I thought we couldn't work out. We have three beautiful boys. One of which is old enough to figure out what is going on. She felt that our marriage was drifting apart and living two differnet lives. Evidentaly, she wants the reballious lifestyle (riding motorcycles, shooting guns, hanging out at bombfires). Things I couldn't provide for her. She use to be this God fearing, church going woman. She doesn't even want to seek counceling. This is extremly heart breaking. It's gut wrenching and my anxiety level has gone through the roof. Though I don't feel angry. I'm still trying to process this. I hadn't slept well in a long time. I thought we were going to live happily ever after. I still have feelings for her in hopes she will realize what a mistake she is making. Maybe I'm a fool to think that. She says that she has been struggling with this also and did not know how to tell me. I thought marriage is about working through our struggles and reconcile our differences. She went on to say hat I was a great husband and father and had no regrets marrying me. At least she is leaving me with the house and not taking off with the kids. BTW this isnt her first time commiting idfidelity. This sucks!
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