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Married dad of 2 grandad of 2
About my Loss:
My mother passed away on the 26 th of September 2016 , I watched her die in hospital after a 3 month illness. Due to the illness we couldn't talk or really say goodbye.

On the day of her passing they switched the machines' off the said she would pass within minutes, she fought or nearly 24 hrs in pain. At 3am I insisted they give her something more for the pain. They did and she passed minutes later,

Filled with guilt due to the fact the pain medication I insisted on took her pain away but also her fight. What if she would of got stronger maybe they would of offered another treatment, what if , what if

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At 1:05pm on November 27, 2016, Gina de Miranda said…
Darren, the compassion that you showed to your mother was a grace. One thing that all this has taught me is that when it is time...it is time. Your mum was being called and it had nothing to do with the painkillers.
At 12:25pm on November 27, 2016, Gina de Miranda said…

Losing him was like being dismembered.  I have never felt pain this excoriating in my life, some days, it feels like it will eat through my veins. 

At 12:26pm on November 18, 2016, Melanie said…
Thank you
I too am sorry for your loss. It's never easy because we miss them so much.
I don't care if people think I'm crazy....I talk to my loved ones whoeve passed away all the time.
Sometimes I get signs or coincidence whatever you want to call it but it helps me get thru this life.
Be crazy.... act like they're still here if it helps.
 
 
 

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