Christopher
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I live in a very beautiful area of Santa Cruz. I am over two and a half years into my journey, and beginning to suspect that this may continue for some time to come. I am a writer/actor/artist/musician who is beginning to feel the effects that grief is having on all of the above; mainly a loss of excitement, hope, and discipline. I have not had much luck in finding the muse, and I have received, for the most part, inadequate support from friends and family. So It is time to try something new.
About my Loss:
On May 8, 2008 I found that my wife, my mate of ten years, had died suddenly in her sleep. We were married officially, (with much fanfare and a long honeymoon), just the summer before. She was my best friend, lover, and collaborator. Dealing with her death has been at times agonizing, sublime, magical, soul wrenching, confusing, enlightening, and remains a lonely journey.

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At 8:26pm on December 29, 2010, Deb said…
I just lost my husband in October and I scares me to think your journey has been so long and the struggles for you are still overwhelming. Everyday that I get up is so such a lonely struggle I have my kids for support but to lose your best friend, lover and companion such such a burden. It is heart breaking how many people have to go thru such heartbreak
 
 
 

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My daughter did MAID last Tuesday and I've been holding up okay.But just now the Christmas convoy (trucks all lit up that do an organized drive through our small town) went by and suddenly I just started crying, thinking how my girl won't be around to have these small moments. And not that she would have - she wasn't a huge Christmas or celebration person. So I don't know why I'm sitting here crying about it.Oh this is going to hurt a lot :-(See More
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